twenty years

Twenty years ago on this day something happened that changed my life. I was invited to a barbecue by a very special friend, there was someone she thought I should meet. “I’m not interested”, I said, but I went anyway. Little did I know, she had said the same thing to the “someone”, with the same response. The rest, as they say, is history. We had a couple of dates

and before long we were cohabiting. We’ve had some good times, both at home

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7th wedding anniversary, January 2010

and away.

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Sydney Opera House, December 2010

We’ve had some adventures

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Hanson Bay, Kangaroo Island, February 1998

and some silliness.

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Harbour Bridge Climb, Sydney, December 2010

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with Kevin Bloody Wilson, Launceston, August 2014

Six and a half years after that fateful day, we had a very formal wedding

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Wedding, Dawesley, January 2003

and reception.

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wedding reception, Dawesley, January 2003

Along the way, we have learned the essential ingredients of a successful relationship. It takes a lot of teamwork,

a bit of role play doesn’t go astray

and most importantly, don’t argue over the little things.

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with Charlie, November 2009

It’s been a fabulous journey, looking forward to the next twenty……

Lacock Abbey

Lacock Abbey, in the village of Lacock, Wiltshire, was founded in 1232 and served as a nunnery until it was converted into a country house in 1540.

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A lot of work had gone into the window above the entrance door.

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The Gothic Arch

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led to the Stable courtyard

5.The Stable Courtyard with brewery & bakehouse

with its quirky Tudor clockhouse,

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bakehouse and brewery.

We spent some time wandering through the fascinating rooms. They may look familiar if you have seen the Harry Potter films, particularly the medieval cloisters.

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The internal cloister courtyard had a certain tranquility.

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The Warming Room was the only room in the original Abbey where any warmth was provided and the 500 year old cauldron remains.

17.500 year old cauldron in the warming room

The Chaplain’s Room had a 14th century doorway and remnants of a medieval wall painting.

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The valuables of the Abbey would have been housed in the Sacristy.

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The Chapter House windows were stunning.

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We strolled around the grounds, admiring the Abbey from all angles.

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It would have been nice to have seen more of Lacock village – maybe next time.

Devils Marbles

In the middle of nowhere, 1084km south of Darwin and 393km north of Alice Springs, the Devils Marbles are spectacularly scattered across the desert.

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Located in the traditional country of the Warumungu, Kaytetye and Alyawarre people, they call the Devils Marbles Karlu Karlu, which literally translates as ‘round boulders’.

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The stones are made of granite and have been formed by erosion over millions of years.

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They vary in size, from 50 centimetres up to six metres across.

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Many of the giant stones are precariously balanced on top of one another, appearing to defy gravity.

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They continue to crack and erode today, creating an ever-changing landscape.

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The Devils Marbles have great significance for the Aboriginal people and there are many ancient creation legends surrounding Karlu Karlu. Many of these stories are secret and only a few can be shared with visitors. One of the main Dreaming stories for the area relates to how the Devils Marbles were made. An ancient ancestor, ‘Arrange’, was walking through the area making a hair-string belt. As he was twirling the hair to make strings, he dropped clusters of hair on the ground which turned into the big red boulders.

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auspicious autumn

Autumn is a busy time in the garden, with two truckloads of mulch to spread

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and firewood to get in for the winter. We don’t cut down trees in our forest but sometimes nature helps out.

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It’s hard work – he cuts,

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I stack

then Betsy helps us take it up the hill.

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I find some fascinating features in the forest

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trees that appear to have died have not.

We split

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and stack the wood ready for our winter warmth.

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The garden still has some colour

and the bees love the callistemon.

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Five years ago I made a bench from the branches of our pruned fruit trees.

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Sadly, it has succumbed to the elements.

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Maybe another project…..

Montefegatesi

Our last day in Ponte a Serraglio was grey and drizzly but we had planned a drive to Montefegatesi and nothing was going to stop us. On the way we passed San Gemignano and took the opportunity to pull over and admire the scenery.

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Montefegatesi is the highest village in Bagni di Lucca at 842m above sea level and was used by Lucca to guard the boundary with Modena.

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We wandered through the village along impossibly narrow streets

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with random cars parked at impossible angles.

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The old wooden doorways had so much character

and the houses were wedged into every available space.

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At the top of the village is a monument to Dante Alighieri built by the villagers in 1908.

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His stern countenance belies the breathtaking vista from his vantage point or maybe he just doesn’t like the rain.

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Returning to the village we were rewarded with more gorgeous views.

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We enjoyed a prosciutto & formaggio panini at the Pizzeria (ham & cheese roll sounds much more enticing in Italian)

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before the hair-raising drive back down the mountain for our last night in Ponte a Serraglio.